Rape and Sexual Assault

A sexual assault can range from inappropriate touching to a life-threatening attack involving violence and rape.

A sexual assault may leave no outward sign – there aren’t always visible injuries – but may cause immense distress and feelings of violation. Being pressured or forced to have sex or take part in sexual activity when you don’t want to is a crime.

Whatever the situation, whatever your relationship with the person, wherever you were, whatever you were wearing or whatever you were drinking or taking – you did not ask to be raped or sexually assaulted and it wasn’t your fault.

Forcing someone to take part in sexual activity against their will is about power, control and violence. It has nothing to do with sexual desire, love or passion. All sex without consent is rape.

If you’ve been raped or sexually assaulted, no matter what the circumstances or who was involved, remember that it wasn’t your fault. Please seek help. You can find out what support organisations are available in your area here. And you can find out more about what happens if you report sexual assault to the police, here.

Sexual assault on a night out

Unfortunately sexual assault in pubs and clubs is an increasingly common occurrence.

Surveys conducted by Avon and Somerset Police in Bristol City Centre show that sexual assault during a night out is affecting a large proportion of people, and yet the vast majority do not report it.

The assaults described ranged from bum pinching or grabbing, hands up skirts or down tops, being pushed up against the bar and assaulted from behind, being touched sexually on other parts of the body, as well as other things.

If you are assaulted whilst on a night out you should:

  • Remove yourself from any dangerous or uncomfortable situation as quickly as possible
  • Find a member of staff and tell them about the incident, describing the perpetrator(s) if you can
  • Ensure an incident report is completed. Procedures vary between venues but its important relevant information is logged
  • Notify the police if you feel comfortable to do so or ask the venue for support to do this. Police will always listen and believe you. You can call 111 or complete a secure Report a Crime or Incident Form. Always call 999 in an emergency or if someone is in immediate danger.

Here Lottie shares her story of experience sexual assault on nights out with her friends.

If you have been impacted by sexual assault, you can reach out to organisations such as The Bridge for support.

A full list of support organisations is here.

Being pressured or forced to have sex or take part in sexual activity when you don’t want to is a crime.

Whatever the situation – whatever your relationship with the person, wherever you were, whatever you were wearing or whatever you were drinking or taking – you did not ask to be raped or sexually assaulted and it wasn’t your fault.

Forcing someone to take part in sexual activity against their will is about power, control and violence. It has nothing to do with sexual desire, love or passion.

All sex without consent is rape. If you’ve been raped or sexually assaulted, no matter what the circumstances or who was involved, remember that it wasn’t your fault. Please seek help.